Wilkins, 27, posted a black-and-white photo of herself standing next to Patel, 46, with her hand held up to show the ring. Her caption was a pun: "Went and got the law involved." Patel reposted it from his own account with the same ring and heart emojis.
Who is Alexis Wilkins?
Wilkins is a country singer, songwriter and political commentator based in Nashville.She released her debut project, Grit, in 2023 and has also built a public presence through political commentary and appearances at conservative events. Her work combines country music with commentary on culture and politics.
She has performed at a number of public and political events, including events connected with President Donald Trump's political movement.
Wilkins has also spoken publicly about her relationship with Patel. In a 2025 interview, she discussed their first meeting and said she was drawn to his personality, character and values.
Wilkins' career
Wilkins has been working as a performer and writer for well over a decade. She released her debut EP, Grit, in April 2023. She has also done work as a media host and political commentator, and has had small roles in a handful of TV shows and films.How did Kash Patel and Alexis Wilkins meet?
Patel and Wilkins met in 2022 and started dating in early 2023. Wilkins has said little about the early days, and the couple have kept most of their relationship out of the spotlight. That changed after Patel was confirmed as FBI director in February 2025. Wilkins was in the room when he was sworn in, and she has appeared at his side at several high-profile events since, including the UFC Freedom 250 card at the White House in June.Patel's career and role as FBI director
Patel became the ninth director of the FBI on February 20, 2025. His career has included work as a federal prosecutor, congressional investigator, national security official and senior government adviser.Before becoming FBI director, he held senior positions during Donald Trump's first administration, including work on national security and counterterrorism matters.
His appointment to lead the FBI was politically significant and attracted considerable attention in Washington. Since taking the position, Patel has remained a prominent and sometimes controversial figure in U.S. politics.
What Patel and Wilkins posted
Wilkins, 27, posted a black-and-white photo of herself standing next to Patel, 46, with her hand held up to show the ring. Her caption was a pun: "Went and got the law involved." Patel reposted it from his own account with the same ring and heart emojis.A relationship under scrutiny
Their relationship has not been free of controversy. Democratic lawmakers have questioned Patel's use of government aircraft for personal travel, including trips to sporting events and performances that Wilkins attended. Separately, the FBI said last year that Wilkins had been given a security detail after receiving what a spokesperson described as hundreds of credible death threats tied to her relationship with the director. Wilkins is also currently pursuing a defamation lawsuit against several journalists at MS NOW.Neither Patel nor Wilkins has announced a wedding date or said anything about their plans beyond the social media posts.
